Meet Our Owner

He and She Clothing now presents the background information (or dirt) on our Proprietress Mary Lou Patchell!

My Dad was an interior designer, and Mom travelled a lot as an executive secretary and was an instinctive Dominatrix.

"My daddy named me after my mother Mary and himself Lou. Mom had the "gifts" of natural healing powers, sights of the future and of faraway places in the present time. In short, she inherited a little witchcraft from her Irish mother and passed some on to me, her only child. Mom’s natural healing skills worked their magic. Mom was a hobby seamstress and indulged me from my early years by sewing all my childhood original designs from classic coats to gossamer dancing costumes.

Daddy was descended from the Black Irish. When he fathered me at age 65, he became a daddy for the seventh time when most men are Great Grand Daddies.

In our home we had an extensive library. My favourite books growing up were "Gone with the Wind" and "Forever Amber." In addition to reading, I also took up a keen interest in the arts. Mom and Dad provided me with art, music and dance lessons.

Before starting He & She, I worked as a professional dancer, owned an interpretive dance company and supported myself working as a burlesque dancer, model and actress. Even today I do some performing. Most recently I can be seen in the X-rated TV series G-Spot and Body Language, and in the recently released movies "Hit It" and “Club Utopia”. I have been featured in season 1 episode 1 of the reality series “Lost and Sold.”

Being an exotic performer myself, I fully realized the power of presenting a knockout appearance through dressing up and I am eager to pass on my highly specialized knowledge to others.

Fashion is one of my top four passions. Through He and She Clothing, I can tend to the needs of females, males, she-males, cross dressers (X-Dressers), drag queens, drag kings, pony girls, and all who wish to express their inner magic through their second skin dressings. What is better than a new outfit to make us feel good?"

Proprietress Mary Lou Patchell

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